It takes some effort on your part to get to the best days of your life. If you are going to taste the abundant life that Christ died for, you are going to lose some stuff (people, places and things). Whenever a plant is pruned (cut) the dead and overgrown branches must be removed in order to grow new fruit. There are some things that you must let go of in order to produce the right fruit in your life.
Mt 6:33.But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.